It is so sickening Part – 2

September 19, 2009 at 9:00 am 19 comments

There are some inventions which made the life of human kind more interesting, happening and simple. Among that two main things are Internet and cell phone. I’m damn sure majority of people reading this post can’t even think about a life with out these essentials. Out of the both Cam Cell phone is a wonderful invention. It gave the option for us to snap the beautiful moments of our day to day life. But as they say, every coin as two sides, these two things made lots of people’s life miserable also. Few days back, I read this incident in a newspaper (which prompted me to write this post)
She(30 something) treated that two teenage (17 year) twin brothers like, her on brothers (they were also her husband’s distant relatives).So she gave them full freedom in her house. One fine day, one of her relative called her up and told her nude pic was circulating in that area. After seeing those shocking snaps she fainted and her husband filed a case in the police station. With in hours they caught the twins and they admitted everything. Actually while she were in shower room, they snapped her with there cell phone and circulated it among there friends.
I don’t know what to call them. Anyways they screwed up there future and there parents dreams and also spoiled an innocent lady’s honor. This is just one other incident. Like this lots of nasty incidents are happening almost everyday in everywhere. I heard about another incident recently. Unlike the previous one, here they paid big price cause of a small carelessness.
This dude was really working his ass off in Middle East. He took a few snaps of his wife (in compromising position) in his cell with her permission (she was staying with his parents in his home town). He thought during those lonely and hopeless days in desert, those snaps will give some refreshing memories about the beautiful moments in his life .But this idiot forget to deactivate his Blue tooth and somehow some heartless vultures got this snap and they started blackmailing him. Finally to settle it and destroying all the snaps, he paid them nearly 5 lakh’s. Just imagine what he paid for his small carelessness. His peace of mind, honor, and not to mention, a big chunk of his hard earned saving.
What to do, we are living in a bad world. A few insane perverts insane act make our society pathetic. Probably if we are a little careful, alerted, we can avoid a few unfortunate incidents like this. if you feel that there is something wrong with a persons action with his cell phone, camera (no matter if you are in public, train, bus\railway station, hospital etc), then never hesitate to ask and check his\her cell phones \camera .unfortunately if your fake profile created in any websites (by someone) or you are snapped by some perverts, Then never hesitate to complain the nearest cyber cell. Now days most of the states have an active and efficient cyber cell, they can easily trace the persons responsible for this or at least they can delete your profiles and pictures. As anish commented in my previous post, at present we can only pray, and hope this social degeneration stops at some point.


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19 Comments Add your own

  • 1. Indian Homemaker  |  September 19, 2009 at 10:25 am

    When my parents were young it was a great dishonor for a girl if her photograph – an ordinary passport photograph was found with a man.

    Today nobody will care, we have our photographs of Facebook (etc.) People who blackmail should be reported to the police and punished, but I hope a day comes when such photographs do not remain a matter of honor. Of course they are humiliating and annoying, and embarrassing, but one should feel no ‘shame’. I know this is easier said… but the way we are opening up as a society, I hope one day we will not pay 5 lakh but catch the blackmailers.

    • 2. anishthomas  |  September 24, 2009 at 6:18 pm

      It is easy to say,But i don’t know how practical it is.I guess one main solution is society should support the victims instead of embarassing them.And if we ignore the end product of these perverts,then they will stop producing this kinda pics\videos and also law should be modified to nab this perverts effectively(don’t know whether it is already exists or not).

      According to one of the top fashion designer from hollywood(don’t remember his name),the hottest design in 2030 will be trasparent clothes 🙂 .

  • 3. Vimmuuu  |  September 20, 2009 at 12:01 pm

    I cant understand what pleasure guys find in all this !!! All they have to do is get into the net and search for porn; all their momentary thirst is over with that !!! Idiots !! pathetic idiots !!!

    • 4. anishthomas  |  September 24, 2009 at 6:24 pm

      Exactly,good point.But those guys are sadists.they find pleasure in doing these kinda things.It is 100 % psychological

  • 5. Suji!  |  September 20, 2009 at 1:08 pm

    Well… forget the compromising positions, now-a-days, those creatures even are keen to take very normal pics of the ladies on the road. Then they magnify certain specific areas in the fotos and distribute it with pride. How thoughtless – technology has more chances of being misused and abused than being used!

    • 6. anishthomas  |  September 24, 2009 at 6:29 pm

      Every coin as two sides,But it is so sad to see that,worst side of technology is widely used for this 😦

    • 7. Nimmy  |  October 1, 2009 at 4:03 pm

      Just read this comment after i submitted mine.. Exactly what i said.. There are plenty of people around taking your snaps,in the disguise of talking over the phone… What can i do about it? I don’t know 😦

      • 8. anishthomas  |  October 1, 2009 at 7:45 pm

        Nimmy , we can only pray and take care of ourselves 😦

  • 9. Swaram  |  September 21, 2009 at 11:35 am

    Criminals 😦 Wonder hw their conscience never hurts them 😦 If they hv one to say 😦

    Gotta b really careful Anish! Vultures everywhere 😦 God grant them gud-will!

    • 10. anishthomas  |  September 24, 2009 at 6:31 pm

      yeahh we have to be very careful
      It is a psychological issue.The people who are closer to those fellows should encourage them to get treated.

  • 11. kanagu  |  September 21, 2009 at 6:58 pm

    its really didheartening to read about this anish…

    we are not able to believe nobody these days…. sheesh.. 😡

    • 12. anishthomas  |  September 24, 2009 at 6:32 pm

      I know kanagu…..what to do…lets hope everything will be alright in near future

  • 13. scorpiogenius  |  September 22, 2009 at 5:12 pm

    The state of affairs.. I see a point in Indian Homemaker’s comment as well.

    Now nobody cares about the old ethics and social principles which used to adorn our lives a few years back. Its all evaporated, and malignancies like this are slowly but surely creeping in.

    • 14. anishthomas  |  September 24, 2009 at 6:35 pm

      ethics,principles,values….are we losing all that?

  • 15. Ashwathy  |  September 26, 2009 at 5:18 pm

    terrible 😦
    i m always paranoid regarding photographs and camera cellphones. i never share my pics with strangers or leave my bluetooth on even by mistake. the world is really an unsafe place.

    • 16. anishthomas  |  September 29, 2009 at 11:28 am

      Good ashwathy:) ,It is upto us to be careful.
      Unfortunatily few insane people make this beautiful world, not that sweet to live 😦

  • 17. Smitha  |  September 28, 2009 at 9:00 pm

    Oh God! This is so sickening! People like this! I just cannot understand how people can be like this! All we can do is be very careful..

    • 18. anishthomas  |  September 29, 2009 at 11:30 am

      It is psychological problem.Unfortunatily they don’t understand that.Yeahh it is upto us to be carefull and lets hope things will get alright in near future

  • 19. Nimmy  |  October 1, 2009 at 4:01 pm

    It scares me when i see photographs of women,girls and even babies ,taken by men(probably) from front,back side,left right..Geeez,i pity them for the persons they are..
    anish:There are insane’s.we need a good and clear cyber law

    The only solution is for girls to take care,not to allow anybody to take their snaps,no matter how good the friend is..and also to take care of their dupatta and stuff,otherwise tomorrow one may find their photo on porn sites..You can’t chnage them,so change yourself…

    Anish : Exactly,it is always better for one to care about himself.When we were school kids,every year drugs awareness camp used be conducted in our schools.I guess at present ,along with that we need value inculcate programs also in schools.May be that helps


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