Buddy, why did you do this?

July 17, 2009 at 10:34 pm 18 comments

Da you have got a call, my mom’s voice woke me up from a nap on that lazy afternoon. Dino: hello da this is dino, did U hear what happened, ajin suicide today morning

  I got shocked and didn’t believe my ears .He was one of the best students in my batch. Apart from his academic excellence, he was a gentleman, very spiritual and blessed with very loving parents and a brother. And also he got offer from HCL.I got angry at him, when I heard about his suicide. Even though it happened almost two years back, I still can’t forget the shock, anger and disappointment of his parent’s face. The worst part was, we didn’t get a clear idea, why he did it. We know he were in love with a girl and was going through some problems in there relationship (Only good thing he did was, he never told anyone, even to his close friends, who the girl was).Still this incident is a burning memory to all of us. And about his parents and brother, still they don’t have any idea why there son did this and haven’t recovered from the shock yet

  The main thing that back me from reading regional newspapers now a days, are increase in number of suicide among youngsters. The reason for most of them are love failure, exam pressure, scolding from parents or teachers. Now a day’s most of the kids are so sensitive. They can’t tolerate harsh words (even for valid reason) from parents. Last week I read that a 17 year old student suicide because there parents didn’t get a cell phone for him. And the reason behind another final year BDS student from trivandrum was, her teacher didn’t sign her lab record and scolded for something.

  I don’t know what to say about this and what to write about this. Before ending there life, why can’t they think about there loved ones for a moment or why can’t they share the problem with a close friend. Breaking up with a guy/girl or failing in an exam, is not the end of the life or world and also parents and teachers scolding us to correct us. Once they understand this and think about there loved ones for sometime before committing this, then they won’t feel like ending there precious life. I’m not sure, I think so

   Anyways life is precious gifts of almighty .We have to thank him for it because he didn’t create us as a snake or donkey. So that we don’t have right to kill ourselves .Ask god for the solution or deliverance from the problems that is torturing you. If you ask him honestly, then definitely he will answer you but you have to ask him. Thatz what I think and believe.



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18 Comments Add your own

  • 1. Smitha  |  July 17, 2009 at 11:00 pm

    Great to have you back 🙂 I was wondering where you’ve gone missing 🙂

    • 2. anishthomas  |  July 22, 2009 at 6:07 pm

      hehhe 🙂 …wht 2 do various commitments 😦 …i’m not yet relived 😦 …miss u all

  • 3. Smitha  |  July 17, 2009 at 11:08 pm

    As for the issue of suicides.. I knew of someone – a senior who committed suicide.. And nobody knew why… He had everything going for him.. I think it has to do with the mental make-up of people as well.. Some people are prone to depression and suicidal tendencies..

    • 4. anishthomas  |  July 22, 2009 at 6:10 pm

      Mental make-up ….exactly……and also these souls have to socialise and share there problems with others to get relief from there pain or mental agony they are undergoing

  • 5. hitchwriter  |  July 17, 2009 at 11:32 pm

    I guess in certain very weak moments its best to be with some one and not alone… !!

    I dont know what to say.. really…

    • 6. anishthomas  |  July 22, 2009 at 6:12 pm

      very true…if we have some one in our life to share our problems, then we can relieve our pain to a great extend

  • 7. kanagu  |  July 17, 2009 at 11:40 pm

    Welcome back anish 🙂 great to have you back 🙂
    for suicides I think, children must be grown up in a way who values their life much and there are better things to do than ending their dear life 😦

    • 8. anishthomas  |  July 22, 2009 at 6:16 pm

      Thanks kanagu…..there is a old saying in malyalam…if u r molded by fire,then you will not fade away by sunlight…something
      like tht……the kids should be trained to face tough situvations in life

  • 9. Ordinary Guy  |  July 19, 2009 at 3:29 am

    welcome back dude!!!!!

    yes it is a sorry state of affairs……… and suicide is on the rise ,,,,,,,,,,,

    i find it totally unacceptable……………….
    people should never ever give up on life!!!!!!!

    • 10. anishthomas  |  July 22, 2009 at 6:18 pm

      Thanks ajith 🙂

      yeahh people should never give up on life and also we need to trust god

  • 11. Ashwathy  |  July 29, 2009 at 5:23 pm

    yes as generation passes by, tolerance level has come down a lot. ppl have become far more narrow minded and selfish. this is what results in suicide. what the earlier generation valued, a lot of the younger generation take for granted. thus when they dont get what they want on a silver platter, this the result. it’s saddening… truly … 😦

    • 12. anishthomas  |  July 29, 2009 at 6:07 pm

      Exactly…we take everything as granted .We want our life to be perfect and least bothered about others.
      when things don’t favour them,they will depend on sucide ,without thinking how there closed ones life will be affected 😦

  • 13. Swaram  |  July 29, 2009 at 6:46 pm

    One of my friend’s brother committed suicide too for the same reason and his family still can’t come to terms with it 😦
    I echo ur thoughts! Y do they think only abt that girl/boy n not abt their parents who hv been there for them al life 😦

    • 14. anishthomas  |  August 4, 2009 at 1:21 pm

      hmmm wht 2 say….Love makes them blind 😦 ….
      @ suicide – probably it is high time to create awarness about this serious issue

  • 15. Rakesh Vanamali  |  August 4, 2009 at 2:36 pm

    Truly saddening! It appears that the world operates on lower thresholds these days, people often flipping over for some of the most silly reasons!

    • 16. anishthomas  |  August 5, 2009 at 11:50 am

      @ ……most silly reasons………true hmmmmmm

  • 17. Swaram  |  August 4, 2009 at 9:08 pm

    Hey! Some new post ws here isn’t it! Or am I dreaming already 😛

    • 18. anishthomas  |  August 5, 2009 at 9:39 am

      ooops it was a mistake:) ……….By mistake i saved it in draft 🙂 .Hope you can read it now:)………


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